I was not trying to be sarcastic sorry if I came acrossed that way. I know that there are ALOT of people out there trying to get some kind of advise with thier problems too. I guess that is why I came back here I knew that I would get the right kind.
I also know what I have to do for the health of the R with my H, and that is to get rid of the tempation that is out there. Even though it means cutting my tie with a friend so be it. I guess the last couple of days have made me realize that to me nothing means more to me than my H. Even with all of his flaws I just love him to death.