The only problem is in the middle of trying to repair things with my H, my one and only close girlfriend decided for lack of a better description wigged out on me, and I have not spoken to her in almost 18 months. I was concentrating on my R with H and had no time to deal with her too. Her and I have communicated through e-mail but NOTHING like it used to be, besides I would have a very hard time trusting her with any of this now. And there are just some things that you can not talk to you H about.
My friend IS a friend of the marriage, my H and I do go out with him and other friends, and that was my thought was to limit the time that I spend with him to be only when H can be around.
I do need to talk to my friend yet to let him know how I feel about it all and what I am going to expect in return. I think if the rules are laid out and I am very clear about it, there should not be any problem. I just want him to continue to date and find someone and be happy with them not me. Funny thing is that he just started to go out with a girl that he said was totally awesome and they are very good together, but she lives about 2 hours away.
