You know I do agree but two years ago he could have taken full advantage of the sitch, when I was emotionally very unstable looking for stablility. I am not quite sure why he did this when he did, he is afraid of exectly what you are telling me to do, and I know I should do. The correct DB thing is to get rid of him and throw him to the curb and look at the relationship I have with my H and figure out why what happened, happened.
I would be great to see what others think, I have read some of your other posts and you have given good advice.
