I'm so happy to hear that you and your wife have put things back together. Keep up the great work and all those other tired cliches. It's so worth it, isn't it?
I hope that my cousin is able to see things clearly soon. She has a really nice life, married to a truly good man. I know she was never in love with him and that's certainly difficult. At least H and I had good memories to build on, looking back at better times.
We are doing pretty good, btw! I no longer identify as the HD partner and, what's more important, he would probably identify as the higher drive partner in our M now. I never realized how important it was for a man to be da man, within his marriage. I'm so proud of him and the progress he's made. I know your wife feels *exactly* the same.