Hey C,
Good to see you buddy!

I'm so happy to hear that you and your wife have put things back together. Keep up the great work and all those other tired cliches.
It's so worth it, isn't it?

I hope that my cousin is able to see things clearly soon. She has a really nice life, married to a truly good man. I know she was never in love with him and that's certainly difficult. At least H and I had good memories to build on, looking back at better times.

We are doing pretty good, btw! I no longer identify as the HD partner and, what's more important, he would probably identify as the higher drive partner in our M now. I never realized how important it was for a man to be da man, within his marriage. I'm so proud of him and the progress he's made. I know your wife feels *exactly* the same.

Take care of your new life!
HP