HP,

Eewwwwwww - what an icky spot to be in with a friend. I have been a little surprised by the number of women I have known who have had or are having affairs. I really was giving women a lot more credit than they deserved. In fact, I suspect that the lower reporting rate of infidelity in women actually represents a higher rate of lying about it. I hope you can help her. I hope she starts by quitting that job. I hope she gets some help for herself. I think you gave her some helpful advice. Of course, you know that not second M's tend to be spectactularly less successful than first ones (higher incidence of divorce). Of course you know that the likelihood of any good coming from this for this woman or her family is, well, none. I just hope she listens to you.

Glad the Pot family is well. I am officially halfway through this pregnancy. This little boy is busy moving around all day long. Everything looks good but I need more rest - I already have soooo many braxton hicks it is ridiculous. I seem to have more each pregnancy.

Karen