Have you read Divorce Remedy....there may be LOTS of easier things to try...
Whenever there is significant change...like your roles reversing....the change will inevitably affect other areas of your life. Sexuality for women especially is affected by the other things going on in her life. Your wife probably needed a lot more transition than the wine and candles. You did a good job, it was nice setting the mood. But women often need DAYS of setting the mood.
We can be hard to figure out.
Even though you look great, you have different things to talk about...probably the things she used to be the expert on...correct me if I'm wrong....but if she did most of the kid stuff when you were both working.....it might feel out of whatck...even if she enjoys the situation. She may feel odd about relating to you romantically.
My suggestion to you is to do something outside the home (besides class) to have something to talk about, and this will add to your 'mystery'. So you seem more like a 'date' than a dad.
There could also be lots of other reasons her drive is low right now......if she's around your age she could have some perimenopausal symptoms, she could be stressed about work and/or money.
You could try 'dating' her too.
Having 'fun' very often leads to lovin'.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
