wish that I could help but honeslty I am feeling much the same way in my sit right now...h is home..things go well when i bite my lip about my needs and go with the flow...
maybe they still have their issues to deal with and in time we won't have to put the pressure on to get them to open up....at least we have faced what our part was in the downfall of the m....so we may go into the new year feeling like we want it all to be right..but should remind oursleves that we have made the adjustments and improvements needed on our part now we just have to have the patience and hope that they will make their adjustments too...
so what I'm saying is...though it may seem like we are headed into the new year with the same problems...we are not because we now have faced them...so the problems are only half what they were..
do I make any sense?? cause honestly I'm talking to myself here too.
LL trying to find the sunny side of the shitty sit's we are all in!!!
