Anyone who wants proof of why we need to just let things happen just go visit Rachel's thread. I feel bad for her but I saw this coming two months ago. Make your M a great place to be. Make it so your S (or anybody else for that matter) wants to be with you. I think we forget how to "date" and be attractive. Any of you that are new to this board also need to follow Zebra's advice. He is accurate, honest, and understandable. Many C could only dream of being this.
I hope everyone is doing well but I am going quiet again to keep my perspective. Too much time on this BB can be counter productive. It makes me think very negatively about my R. Good luck to all, please take care of yourselves and enjoy life because it is so short.
