Good to hear from you! I have stopped pushing Tbone, but he is just not responding in any way other than negative-he's so angry and I have done nothing to deserve his anger. He says he feels trapped, but he can't say why. How do you improve on that which you don't know?? For awhile it seemed he was interested and was treating me good and I thought we were headed in the right direction and I did not start doing anything different but his attitude changed for some reason. He stopped calling me,stopped saying ILY except when I said it first. He is definately a moving target and I don't know what to do except nothing. Let him be. Leave him alone. I initiate sex and he does not seem to mind that and seems to enjoy it very much but he also says I "use" it as a weapon. The man used to do NOTHING but complain that he did not get eonough sex. Now that he is he turns the tables completely around and I don't know what he wants from me. I initiate it becasue I love him and want to be close to him. Its uncanny how he changes, and I'm at a loss and scared of what he'll do or say next.I have backed off-I don't call him during the day which he told me to do, I don;t ask what time he;ll be home. These are new things I am trying. Before he said he understood why I needed those things. Well, it seems he stopped understanding. Racahel
