Tbone, I have been wondering how you were doing ... hoping that no news was good news!
Each time you post I am awed at the parallels between our two sitchs. Have you read thru Michelle's DR again recently? I found that I skipped alot there when I first read it because I was the only one working on M at the time, but when you achieve the level where both are working at it, there are more DBing techniques that can be used like ... "Asking for what you want..." that can quicken the mending. When my W first said she wants to work on M, I too, felt we weren't quite there as a team yet. Improving communications in general has been a key in bringing us closer together lately and W is opening up more and more.
I know this BB seems to get to ya from time to time, but I want to let ya know I am very grateful you were here and you have help me out tremendously at the very time I needed it the most. Thanks again and you will always be the man ...
