Best answer you could have gotten Joe. That is it exactly.
Welcome, and sorry you are here with us. It does help to know that lots of people are in this situation. It does help you deal with the pain. It does support you while you stand.
Normal DB does not work here, at least in an immediate results sort of way. MLC work is scoring point when you never see the score board, and will not get any idea of how the game is being played until you are up to your eyeballs in scrapes and bang ups. So DB all the time, but do not expect to see the results of your work. You will hear about it at a much later date.
HOlly


Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.