Well, maybe we are friends with fringe benefits after all. Would it be "French" benefits if the WAW slipped you the tongue like she did me today when I dropped off our S6? Just kidding, couldn't help it!

She just started hugging and kissing me a couple of weeks ago, but just a quick kiss and hug. Today, she kissed me a little longer and stuck the tongue in for the first time and a long time. I gently bit her upper lip and pull away in a teasing manner. I saw that predatory look in her eyes!

What's that all about? I know it's been a long time for her because she's waiting on some yahoo to get paroled who may be in there another 5 to 10 years. I know she's not dating any others and she's not the type for one night stands, she needs an emotional connection or at the very least a very familiar and close acquaintance. I think she's horny and doesn't know where to turn. I think in a strange sense, she wants to remain faithful to the convict, but his emotional manipulation isn't enough to keep her desires in line. Last week, she made a commit about me having sex with the OW and asked it I do the things to her that I use to do to her. Of course, I didn't say anything and tried to avoid the conversation, but I can tell she was heating up just thinking about it.

I have sensed for the past few weeks she wants to use me for sex. OW is really having an impact on her actions towards me. Almost like she wants to compete for my affections or attention. She's really warming up sexually to me, but keeping her distance emotionally. I think I may end up being used, but I think I'm up to the task without being hurt afterwards by her predictable withdrawal.

What would you guys do?

"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare."
-Mark Twain