crikey - I wish I knew the answer to that one. I haven't even started down that route yet. I do know I get a little pang of pain when I imagine dating. It's like I'm expecting to get dumped before it even starts. Just be honest with her and let her make up her own mind. Yuo can't do any else.
You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself. Galileo Galilei