Why does she feel a need to fabricate some exotic social life for me so she can criticize me as a Father and justify her relationship with the convict? It's just plain hurtful and wrong. I just want to move on with my life, her baggage is weighing me down!
You have just answered yourself. She is making up things to justify what she is doing. It is to make herself look better even though she is the one walking away. No matter what you do right now, she will probably find wrong in it. That again will only be to stroke her own conscience.
Take it with a grain of salt...I am trying hard to do the very same thing with my H. It is so hard for all of us when we are degraded for things that really weren't bad enough to force them into an A.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
