My WAW has been recently sending me emails over the past couple of days about me with OW and how that is affecting my relationship with our S6. How I'm spending money wining and dinning them and taking it away from him. How I'm such a bad person for treating her the way I did in our M, but having all this fun with OW, how I'm spending all this time with them when I could be spending the time with our S. how I do things for them I didn't do for her, etc...
Of course, it's not the reality, but trying to convince her is futile. I really don't know what She is talking about or why. If it were true, why would she care anyway? She has her OM in prison. She's the one that constantly reminds me that "it's just not there" and no amount of counseling will bring it back and how she had to go else where to meet her needs because I wasn't doing it, etc. I mean how many times do we have to apologize for our failures in the marriage before they stop criticizing us for them?
I finally got tired of the insults and put downs and told her that if "it's just not there" as she so often reminds me, then leave me alone and stop sending me these insulting and angry emails. I told her that if She didn't want to reconcile, then we really had nothing to talk about except the boys.
The response I got back from her was "whatever" and that was it. I have not heard back from her sense.
Why does she feel a need to fabricate some exotic social life for me so she can criticize me as a Father and justify her relationship with the convict? It's just plain hurtful and wrong. I just want to move on with my life, her baggage is weighing me down!
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
