Thank you for your post. I was starting to go backwards and I think that when I woke up this morning and didn't think about him for 30 minutes at first that I will be making progress again. I have found a supposrt group at a church......I was stating to pack again and came across a paper that lists suppost groups. I have been looking for one for awhile...well tonight I accidently(?) found one in the paper. YYYYYIIIIIIIPPPPPEEEEEEEE again. I tried calling they are closed but will do it on Monday. This is so wierd. I have been looking for about 3 weeks and finally found one. This is a good sign I will continue forward with it.
I know to look at them as if they have a disease. This has helped in the past. They can't help themselves. I so want to help. I want him to be over it. BUT I KNOW that I can not help him in any way. It will be all about me again. I put stop in my head today when I started to regress today. Have the lights on in the house and the heat turned up. It's freezing here.
I will probably cancel my appointments with the counselor. I will probably try and find another counselor. She related my husband to my father and that is icky. It has truth in it but I don't want to talk about that. There are similarities but I don't need FREUD right now. Don't always agree with the father of the psychy.
Again thank you for posting. I am sorry about your friend and her husband. I work with ALzsheimer patients sometimes and it is sooooo hard on the families especially the spouses and what they endure. Do know that I will come here again. It is my support group that knows what I am going thru. My best friend doesn't like the MLC theory. Most everyone thinks he's normal and he isn't. And there is nothing that I say that helps. So i have given up. Take care ITSY
M54 H54 married 30 years Prostitues and Other women "100's" 10/7/2004 Prostitue/Junkie girlfriend 6/04-1/07? Left 1/5/05 returned 1/9/05 Asked h to leave 4/2005 Had to, prostitues OW 5/2005 not a prostitue Divorced 9/2006
