I find this interesting there was a case this time last year when my now xh asked me about something and I said we had already done that 9 months ago, it was a matter of tending to his grandmas grave, he helped me to titivate it up in feb/march last year then in december he asked if he thought we should do it, he genuinely couldn't remember doing it, then this year he phoned me and gave me a right blasting on the phone for visiting his aunt, said we were scheming about him and he wanted me out of his house, he was threating to destroy me and saying really nasty things, then again three weeks ago more verbal came reminding me that I am an horrendous mother, the day after he calmed down and phoned me and was talking ok, I asked him what I have ever done wrong to him to deserve all this poison, you know he said he hadn't phoned me back in May but he can remember phoning his aunt and falling out with her, and yes I do believe he cant remember phoning. Yet only 3 weeks ago he married ow, is he ever going to say he cant remember marrying her, or the fact that he traded me in?