GG, You will and must continue to get on with your life and the life that had no hint of your exh in it. Do remember that this was one phone call, (or two) and not a reconnection. It may turn into something or not, but best to put it out of your mind as best you can I think. I suspect you will do that after pondering this call carefully for a couple days. I do see people including myself, getting all worked up about something that might look like a baby step but is actually just what it is on the surface.
Don't mean to be harsh, but I would rather see you looking forward towards the new and unexplored future, than pulled 'back' by waiting and limbo. xxx Amy