What a pleasant surprise! I must say that I've always admired your peacefullness, kindness and stellar sense of humor in dealing with this garbage. Even in your own situation, you are a stunning example of compassion.
I will heed your warning about getting confirmations. I do like to have my ducks in a row. Quack, quack. I am a little worried that my passport will arrive in time, but I was trying not to focus on any negatvity.
I will also follow all of your recommendations regarding the cool drinks and sandy beaches and massages. I'm not sure about parasailing, though. The package offers a free snorkeling lesson. I'm not a swimmer but oddly enough, I'd feel less likely to drown while under the water than on top of the water.
Quote: Never give the shadows in life the focus of your attention
I hear 'ya.
Quote: If someone says they spotted an exSomethingOrOther in a public place, say "Eewww I'm sorry for you as that must have been horrible" as you continue to enjoy a cold drink of your choice ... or a hot cup depending on the need.