G, I'm so happy to see that life is finally turning around for you. You struggled for a long time to understand the situation w/your xh. When we stop struggling the answers will and do come. I'm glad the Peter O'Connor book helped.
You've got a trip to look forward to! That's wonderful! Enjoy the warmer weather and applying for your passport indicates that travel plans will be very much part of your future. Enjoy each and every destination.
You sound very content and settled. You're an inspiration to others and I do hope others will read this thread.
Enjoy the holiday season for the new year promises to bring you many surprises!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
