Mermaid, Enjoy the party and don't over do w/the painting. The painting will allow you to work out your newest frustrations over the ow appearing in your neighborhood.
Mermaid, I know you were upset and very annoyed about the ow being in your neighborhood, but don't forget that you can't control the situation and he's going to do what he wants and when. I know that you fired off the email, but don't be surprised if he continues to bring her around. He's not thinking of you or what people are thinking right now. He's only concerned about himself and what makes him feel good. You'll have to try to stick to the boundaries that you've set in the email. I'm very sorry he pulled the stunt and I hope that he will read your email and understand where you are coming from.
I hope that things will settle down and your neighborhood won't see the ow again.
Have fun at the party.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.