Thank you for your reply. I have spent far too much time musing and mulling. I know I should not. I don't know if it patience I have or just an inability to make a decision.
Today I found out that h brought ow when he took the girls to dance class. This is my neighbourhood, my community. I don't think he has any right to bring her around here. He would not like it if I should up in his neighbourhood. So I fired off an email to him telling him that and some other things. I also told him I want no contact from him except through email and I did not want him coming by the house unannounced. I think it is time to really be tough here. Just for me. I was thinking of lifting this darkness but no I am going darker.
Thanks for letting me vent.
Hope you all have a nice weekend. I am going to my friend's 40th bday party and I have to finish painting my kitchen tommorrow.
