Congratulations on your being accepted to the university!
You've been through so much with your h of late, but you did a very nice job with everything leading up to and including the Christmas concert. You put down some boundaries beforehand (no ow at the concert) and have stood your ground setting boundaries and going dark. Although the coffee wasn't going dark, it really was a nice gesture during a time when being dark wasn't all that easy. Not sure if that makes sense, but I hope you know what I mean.