(((Mermai))): I am so sorry that your H did this to you. How totally cruel!!! After all that you have done.
I don't want to get into it too much as we differ in our opinions a bit and my ex DID marry OW, but - I think that flashing the rings in her face and telling it as it is WAS the right thing to do. I wish I had done it long ago when I had the chance. I think your H is a total MORON, not you.
Let him be. He made an ass of himself. You held yourself up. Others know.