Don't be more in the R than they are?

[RBinBR]

The question is, does she really know what she wants? When she demands things from you, you assume that's really what she wants, but I think that women sometimes need someone who can tell them "no" and stand up to them. What she may really be doing is "testing" you to see if you're just going to cave, or if you're going to stay in charge of the situation.