I usually post on MLC, but wanted to know if any of you here who are working at putting marriage back together ever had your spouse in the beginning of this nightmare or whatever tell you they planned on getting a divorce? H walked out 6 months ago said he wanted divorce after 3 weeks being gone and moved in with OW 2 months ago and twice has said he plans on getting divorce. He doesnt have the money to file and he REALLY wants me to do it which i wont, but just wondered if they ever say they want divorce and then end back with their wives? I have been doing pretty well but H just called and mentioned divorce {again} I ignored remark but then the insecurity came back after i hung up so i am posting here for help. thanks bjehill