He needs to do something....maybe getting away from OW so that he can actually decide what he really misses in his life and what he wants. I really wish he would start back to therapy. I think that could help him alot. I have scheduled my next appointment but I am not sure if i will tell him about it. I might need to go once by myself and deal with some things. Then I could schedule the next one and let him jump in on it.

He may try to tell me that he is happy with what he is doing but I can see it in his eyes and his actions that he isn't......


"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."