Well, I just spoke with H and he was trying to explain in his little way, what was going on at work. He claims that there is a new STNA there and this person has accused him of abusing a resident. Now if any of you knew the old H, you would know that he wouldn't hurt a fly....but we are talking about the H that I thought would never have an A nor lie to me....we know where that has gotten me. But to be honest, I don't think he would hurt one of the residents. But we also have to look at his little altercation with the OW's H. So right now, I am not too sure what to believe or how long to trust him with the kids alone. His patience level has always been very low but again, I don't think he would physically harm the kids.
Those are just my thoughts. He did get a little upset that I had talked to the Admin but I didn't tell him everything that was said. I just said that he was asking me some personal questions and I had told him that H's emotions were all over the board right now. He said "that doesn't help." I told him that I didn't know what was going on. How am I to know what I am to say and not to say. Anyways, I am not going to start lying....not now!
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
