Well hanging out may be what he needs right now. That is the only sense of normalsy (don't know if that is a word) that he has in his life at this point.
I did tell him about going to Las Vegas in Jan and San Antonio in Feb. He looked at me as though a little jealous. I looked at him and said 'you could have gone. All we had to do is take care of your plane ticket.' He said 'I know'. It is going to be those trips and the trips to his mom's house in NC that get to him as well.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
