Well, that is good to hear. At least he is doing that with you but he has come over many times with Alcohol on his breath. I never say anything to him about it. I know that I can't control that either but sometimes I wonder how drunk he is going to get himself one of these days. Seeing that he has already gone through 2 suicidal episodes.

I pray that he doesn't end up driving you off. He doesn't see how much of an asset he has in you as a friend. He made a comment about being with you around the holidays so that you wouldn't get too down in the dumps. It made me wonder if he ever thought about that with me. Is he even concerned how I have been feeling about the holidays? Just my selfishness wanting him to see that the emotions you are going through are the same ones that I am going through.


"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."