I would never scoff you. J is doing well himself and it will mean a lot more if you let him destroy his own rep. Might sound cold but this is somthing that IMHO think he needs to go through for himself. I know you have been fighting for your M as well as I but the thing is that the only one we can control is ourselves. Anything we do to try and turn them seems to push them further away. They have to make that turn for themselves. All we can do is wait and see if it will happen.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
