Quote: If he really knew what he wanted to say he would not be running in both directions.
I wish this was 100% accurate but i know many times when he has said "I don't know" and he really did want to say something. Sometimes it is to avoid hurting me, sometimes to avoid the issues..... But I do know that his world is so out of control right now. Especially knowing that she doesn't trust him and he doesn't believe everything that she tells him. And he knows that I have not lied to him and have never had a reason to lie to him. That is my weakness in a way....I tend to say the truth whether it hurts feelings or not. I just can't see handing someone a lie.
I will invite him to do something, just not sure what!
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."