I think I shocked him but he didn't pull away from me. After that, he just told me his work schedule for the week and I told him to be careful on his way....where ever he was headed when he left. All I know is that I was probably on his mind after he left.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
Remember DBing is about trial and error. Try somthing, anything, and if you get a good response keep doing it. If you get a negative respose try somthing else.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
I will keep trying but without R talk. I would love to ask him out to do something but I am afraid of what his response will be.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
I know but I get so tired of the "I don't know" responses. I could hold up a cue card every time I knew that he was going to say it. It is all of the time. He really knows what he wants to say, he just doesn't want to say it.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
Quote: If he really knew what he wanted to say he would not be running in both directions.
I wish this was 100% accurate but i know many times when he has said "I don't know" and he really did want to say something. Sometimes it is to avoid hurting me, sometimes to avoid the issues..... But I do know that his world is so out of control right now. Especially knowing that she doesn't trust him and he doesn't believe everything that she tells him. And he knows that I have not lied to him and have never had a reason to lie to him. That is my weakness in a way....I tend to say the truth whether it hurts feelings or not. I just can't see handing someone a lie.
I will invite him to do something, just not sure what!
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
Quote: Sometimes it is to avoid hurting me, sometimes to avoid the issues.....
If he really wanted to say it, he would not really care about the outcome it had on you or the issues that he is dealing with. The truth is that he starts feeling one way when he is with one person and then his mind flips when he sees the other. It is an ongoing saga in his head.
What about going to the Funnybone one night? Find a good comedian and go have a few laughs together.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
