I know but I get so tired of the "I don't know" responses. I could hold up a cue card every time I knew that he was going to say it. It is all of the time. He really knows what he wants to say, he just doesn't want to say it.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."