Not giving up even though H having an A

[osu43130]

I don't know what to do right now other than focus on me and the kids

First thing is to get the dang book from me and read it.

Second focusing on you and your kids is exactly what you need to do right now. You goal is to make him pursue you, not sit and talk about the R everytime you guys are around each other. Don't you see that everytime you two seems to talk about the R one of two things happen?

1) He shuts up and does not say anything.
2) He gets all pissy.

Try to have a good time when he is there. Like nothing in the world is bothering you. Quit all aspects of R talk unless you are at MC. He needs to just figure out what is going on in that little peanut brain he has right now and get his sh!t straight. The R talk makes him not want to come around.

I know it is tough trust me, of all peopl you know I understand your pain. However you have to stop trying to con him into comming back. The whole trust thing he will have to figure out on his own. They will fail but you have to be paitient and quit pushing him...

Later,
Ben