Hell yea I will be there for his B-Day. I forgot all about it.
As long as you do not mind of course. Hell Your parents probably hate me....Guilty by association....
I agree he will miss out on a lot of things. It was his choice to bail and you are right do not wait around for him to make up his mind that he wants to be a part of the family. Stand your ground but do it in a polite and courious way(sp?).
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."