I don't know....maybe guilt of talking to me when he is suppose to be pursuing something with her...... I couldn't tell you. Only he could answer that question and I wouldn't believe anything that he says. When I noticed him calling her 5 or 6 times in a row, with 1 minute each, that tells me that she isn't answering. In my mind, it looks as though he doesn't trust her. He thinks that she is with the XH, which she very well may be. I don't know what his mind is doing. I talked to him the other night (when you were going to meet him in Carroll to go shopping) after she had lied about talking to me. I asked him if he had found out why she had drug me into her excuse of not being home. His response was "no." I told him that I have not lied to him and that I have no reason to lie to him. He said "I know." Then I said "If the only way she is keeping you around is by lying, what does that tell you?" No response..... We shall see.


"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."