Thanks Aud. It is always nice to get encouragement from people that are going through the same life struggles.
Sometimes I do feel like the doormat. He comes over whenever he feels like it and then takes off whenever he wants. That is the hard part..... He gets to talk about things on his time frame and I am suppose to sit around and wait for his confused mind to become clear.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."