You know, all I can do is sit back and enjoy the fact that his mind is in such a state of confusion. If he truly didn't love me and cared so little about his family, then it would not be such a hard decision for him to walk away. I can see that whenever I am with him. He can't look me in the eyes and that is what kills me. I know that his heart is softening and he is starting to see the changes in me which include my attitude towards him and his choices. I have continued to be kind and compassionate towards him. WHENEVER he makes a smart decision or when he comes over looking so nice, I complement him by saying "I am proud of you" or "you look really nice."
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
