Ben, you know his mom.....if not, take my strong will and add to it an unforgiving heart and that is her. She is a strong African American woman who is fed up with her son's stupid attack. I am not going to say anything to him about her but he will find out if and when he tries to call her. I won't have to say a word because she will do all the talking or yelling. H knows that he married someone just like his mom except where she is unforgiving and bottles things up, I am forgiving and try to deal with my issues as soon as they hit me. I am not one to bottle things up. My philosophy is to say it and be done with it. That is where H and I differ.
The kids are doing good. Q is so excited but the other two don't really comprehend what is going on. I know that A will love to just rip up the paper, she always does.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
