Quote: I am feeling the need to shake the crap out of H. I would love to know what the heck is going on in his thick skull.
I feel the same way about my W.
Quote: I know that I am not going to say anything to him about what my plans are for Christmas.
You might just want to say what your plans are and leave it at that. If he shows up great if not, It is his loss.
As far as the mother thing. I would stay the hell away from that. There is nothing good that can come out of it. Not to mention Blood is always thicker than water. My W's family (except MIL) acted the same way at first and basically told her that she was not welcome down there anymore. I had to go down there and tell them that I did nothink it was right that they are treating her like this. She is and always will be a part of their family.
How are the kids doing? They getting excited?
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."
