Ok I trust you......I am continuing the 'ME' work and keeping myself in a positive mind frame.
Between all of us, I actually went and opened a checking account with just my name on it so that I could transfer money out of our joint into my individual one. I just want to make sure that i am covered and will be able to pay all of the household bills. I can't take the chance of him having an even bigger brain fart and wiping out the account. I don't think he would do that, but I also didn't think that he would ever be doing what he is doing. When I opened the individual account, there was a weight taken off of my shoulders. It isn't that I feel good that I am on my own, it is just the fact that I actually feel like the control is now in my hands and not in his.
OSU, please don't share this info as you know who I am now.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
