I think that helps me not go insane in the evenings after I put S4 and D3 to bed. It gives me one on one time with S3moths. I think once H realized that he is missing all of the vital times of our youngests life, that he will start coming around.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."