It is so nice that you have stopped by. It is great to hear that someone gets some comfort out of how I am dealing with things even though I have my doubts that it is working.
I think that her still being in the same home is a plus for you. At least you know where she is and she isn't getting used to being away from you and the kids. My H just seems to be so confused but yet he keeps running to her even though he keeps saying things to me that imply a future for us. It just hurts over and over again every time I find out that he has lied to me and has been with her.
Let's stay in contact! It will be a hard thing for you to give her the space as it has been my biggest challenge. I have been good not to call him but then have a moment of weakness when I pick up the phone and call. Then I get angry when he doesn't answer because I know where he is. It is just so hard to see these people making stupid decisions and decisions that are ultimately throwing their family away. They just don't see it that way. If we could put them all in this huge bubble and zap it with brain juice, we would all be in a much happier place today!
Have a good day and hope to hear from you soon!
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
