I just got done reading your sitch. Seems to be similar to mine. My W was having an A, broke it off (because I contacted OM who had no idea she was "working" on her M with me), now she is flying out of town to visit him next weekend, ugh. . . . my sitch
Anyways, I wanted to say that I think that you are doing a great job. I have seen a lot of things that I have been doing wrong by reading your posts. I have been unattractive to my wife because of my over pursuit.
Sometimes we know what we need to do but it is so hard when you don't get immediate results. Thanks for getting me back on track. I am going to give her her space because I know she is confused.
Different than your sitch my wife says a lot that she doesn't want to be married anymore but is staying with me for the kids. I think that this is fine because it buys us time until she can start to come around.
LET'S NOT GIVE UP!!
I added you to my friends list. . . .I hope we can stay in touch and provide each other help
Best regards, SOH
M 34
H 34
Together 8 yrs
Married 7 yrs
Son 2 1/2
Son 2 1/2
SD 12
