I know...I know... I am trying to get out of that pit. Sometimes it is easier said than done but I am trying. Just one of those days of thinking that the world is ending because I have a dumb butt as a H.
I guess my decision right now is to try to forget about what he is doing and focus on what I can do to make him forget about .....what's her name!?!? I look at him and he seems to be a nomad right now not really having anywhere to stay so he ends up there. I just wish he would realize that he does have somewhere to stay if only he would make that decision.
Thanks for the advice. I will get out of my pit and dust myself off.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."