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I was surprised but hoped that it wasn't something to fill me full of false hope.



NEVER say that....Never question him. You saw the result it got you. Just take as he was thinking about you which is positive. If he was sincere or not it does not matter. You should have just thanked him sister and told him how great it was that he was thinking of you and left it at that.

Anyway Moving on because that is in the past. What I really want to say is get out of your self pitty mood. Do you think your H is going to come back if he sees you like this? No He wants the strong and caring woman that he married.

As far as the A. My W is in the same boat. She thinks it is fine and dandy to have an affair with Johnny the Sexoffender eventhough we are still married. Heck She even told my SIL that she was getting fed up with the kids because they were driving her nuts. Gee I wonder Why. Maybe it is because they MIGHT see her 3 days a week and those days are her recover days from staying up until 4AM with Johnny the Sexoffender.

Hey just look at it this way you are in a lot better of a position to save your marriage than a lot of people on her honey. Keep you chin up and do somthing nice for yourself tonight. Maybe take Bubble baths or something simple once the little one goes to sleep.

Cheer up and we are all here for you.
Later,
O

Ben 32
STBXW 29
3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months)
Status: Fighting for the Kids.

"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."