He actually just left and it was a good night. He came over to help put up the Christmas tree and kept dropping those little nuggets of hope in my mental bank. I will keep being that supportive and encouraging person.
He is coming back over tomorrow night to help finish the tree. All I can say is that this is time that he is not spending with the OW. She may be at work but oh well. I have to find something positive in all of this.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."