Wow, you do have some experience in this. Thanks for your kind words. I will definitely keep things posted on here. I am going to continue to read up on other's situations and see how they are handling it. In the meantime, I will check out the books recommended and try to do some of my own DBing. I have been taking some cues from what i am reading on here as well.
Thanks!
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."