It was hard to hear some of the things that he told me when i first found out. I have to try to get rid of this OW in my head and deal with us. I have kept my word and not called her anymore. I am focusing all of my energy on us. I told him that I am going to fight for this and he knows that when I say it, I mean it. But then I feel like I am the only one fighting sometimes. It has only been 2 or so months since I found out so maybe I am rushing things by wanting the perfect ending so soon. Who knows, miracles can happen and will. So I never did ask, what is your sitch? If you don't mind sharing.
"Be patient to persevere and wait for God to heal. Keep in mind that you are both imperfect people. Look to God as the source of all you want to see in your marriage and don't worry how it will happen...Leave it in His hands."
